BAD APPLES!!.

If you keep seeing bad apples on the ground, fallen from a tree,it’s time to look up and investigate the tree. High failure rate at a college/school can’t be blamed in the students as if it were a once off..

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RUNNING AWAY FROM YOURSELF

In fact you can’t run away from yourself. It’s like trying to run away from your own shadow….which is unheard of anyway. Learn to face life with everything it throws at you. Logically,it’s better to see what’s coming than to have your back to it. You don’t have eyes at the back of your head. […]

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U WIN SOME U LOSE SOME!!!

“You win some, you lose some. And when you lose, you have to pull yourself together and go back for more. Otherwise, the other side wins by default.” ~ Charles Stross Even if you are an expert or champion in what you do. Such is true life….not fake life. Celebrate a win & stomach a lose […]

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WHAT FORGIVENESS IS NOT

I will speak from an angle which is not commonly spoken. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting or excusing the harm done to you or making up with the person who caused the harm. Forgiveness does necessarily mean reconciliation with the perpetrator after forgiving them.Boundaries need to be set otherwise you become what people want you to […]

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IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIPS

There are four basic types of relationships: family relationships, friendships, acquaintances, and romantic relationships. Other more nuanced types of relationships might include work relationships, teacher/student relationships, and community or group relationships. One most important aspect of a good relationship is it’s ability to cause overlooking the mistakes of one another. Only if it has been […]

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Who Am I? & Who Are You?

All night studying achieved. One would be surprisedw. r. t my motivator list. #pushfactors. #targets #relocation Greetings in the name of empowerment ya’ll! Focus today lies in the contents of Exodus 3. There are 2 question everyone needs to ask… “Who am I & who are You? It’s a question of identity & also a […]

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Chronic Stress Ages Your Bones

Chronic Stress Ages Your Bones When we think of the most common problems faced by old people in terms of health, you might bring up the fact that they often have weak or brittle bones. This is true, but this isn’t a problem exclusive to old people. In fact, stress can age your bones no […]

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“Laissez-faire”

Practice non interference In the affairs of others!! You should tolerate the opinions and behaviour of others the same way you would want them to tolerate your own. As we engage in a “Lest We Forget Who We Are” #quest lets not deny other #races , #clans,#gender #LGBTQI and other #Nationalities from embarking on the […]

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MY NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS

“You can’t afford to live without planning, strategizing and not to have terms of reference.”~ #RaeGumboBlog 1. To take my company to the next level with my business partner who also happens to be my wife. 2. To diversify as a company into other areas of business. 3. To live a balanced life , family,work,social […]

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MAKE THE MOST OF 2020

Israelites,as much as they were in oppressive Egypt for 400+ years,came out with skills and knowledge. Same as when they were in exile in oppressive Babylon. 70 years later when they came out,they were skilled. Keep in mind that it was pure slavery…work without pay! 2020 was a difficult year yes but what are you […]

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IT TAKES 6

It takes 6 people to carry you post life in your coffin. If only you can get 6 people who unconditional have your back…..

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Borderline Personality Disorder

Definition & Symptoms  A mental disorder characterised by unstable moods, behaviour and relationships.The cause of borderline personality disorder isn’t well understood. Diagnosis is made based on symptoms. Causes These include: being a victim of emotional, physical or sexual abuse. being exposed to long-term fear or distress as a child. being neglected by 1 or both parents. […]

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Borderline Personality Disorder

Definition & Symptoms  A mental disorder characterised by unstable moods, behaviour and relationships.The cause of borderline personality disorder isn’t well understood. Diagnosis is made based on symptoms. Causes These include: being a victim of emotional, physical or sexual abuse. being exposed to long-term fear or distress as a child. being neglected by 1 or both parents. […]

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You Are Not Alone

The greater perspective among a few has been covered at length by most writers. On this one I take a rarely emphasized angle. You’re not alone….meaning there are other unknown people going through s**t stuff like you are. You just don’t know them….. But knowing them is not the point. Take comfort that you are […]

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Tailor Made Fears

The enemy can’t keep using same fear strategies he knows you know and are so used to. It’s a typical success strategy. “You can’t expect different results if you keep using strategies that have failed before” . That’s how I feel right now. There are certain genuine fears I have that the enemy is beginning […]

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